Hi Everyone,
I, Michael Lettman, would like to share my work on Social Relationships.
This post on Social Relationships is about Romance (meaning Romantic Relationship), I like to share my thoughts about the world of romance (that I'm currently not ready for yet).
Some of Michael Lettman's Problems towards the World of Romance
There are some problems that I wouldn't like to deal with when I'm ready to go out with someone. For example, things may NOT work out or I may screw things up because of my autism (or me being a not-listening stubborn pest).
After doing some private researching (which also included watching love moments from movies and TV series), I'm having difficultly with accepting the world of romance. I would NOT wanna get teased, mocked, or mistreated in a romantic relationship (via the world of romance) because those terrible things will enrage me, highly hurt me on the inside, & make me go berserk. Even if I did accept the world of romance, a few unhappy break-ups might still happen which can lead to having some unpleasant exes in life, then Michael Lettman & romance may not work out together.
To be honest, I really don't like the kind of people within the world of romance that are the type of people which I despise: The Toxic Type (which are Spoiled or Rotten). I know I'm being a bit rude but I just wouldn't want to be around people like that in the world of romance because it would be very uncomfortable & it would definitely be HORRIBLE for my life. So if I ever accept being in the world of romance then I REALLY don't want anything awful happening to me because if it does then I'm going to wish that I've NEVER accepted romance in the first place.
If I choose to NOT be in the world of romance, then there's a possible chance that I'll be OK with being alone with no romance then I'll see what I can do for myself from ended up remaining single which may be for the best. Maybe there are some people already out there happily living by themselves so some solitude actually sounds good to me.
Social Relationships - Family
I do know because of romance, new people are always born into our world (as Adorables = young little babies). So I can understand that romance can lead to starting a family (which is part of my interests). I must admit that may be the only thing that I like about romance but I am still going to ponder about it. From the way I see it, I can like that after someone has had a few safe break-ups with others up until finding "the one". Then they've worked things out together, started dating, & a first newborn child (or more) is in the hands of official parents which has started a brand new family.
From my Perspective
I would like to say that you should try your best to find "the one" in your love life & be truly happy with your great romance. Even if you have some exes, you can still go on trying to find "the one" that you're meant to be with for the rest of your life without any break-ups. Maybe eventually you & a few exes (if both sides are on the good side) can still be good friends without MANY problems.
"The One": In the world of romance, I believe "the one" means your true love, soulmate, & the official person for you to be with for the rest of your life. There are some people out there that have managed to find “the one” for their love life. Break-ups can happen more than once, so it may be like a challenge to find "the one" for you.
Innocent Ones: From watching some past shows, I feel sorry for innocent people that can end up getting into the wrong situation or misunderstanding as framed victims. It can look like they've done something bad that's romance-related when it could've been a misunderstanding. Toxic jerks can have innocent ones blamed for bad stuff that they did NOT do. If anything bad happens to innocent ones because of romance, then I would like for the people that trust & care about them to PLEASE help them out which includes the innocent ones from the autistic community of course.
From what I've learned during private research, when things do NOT work out for you & someone that you're currently dating, then you break-up. Then try to make sure that you & the next person you'll be dating shall take care of things together. I do not like that break-ups can cause many people to have a lot of exes, which are many people that you used to be together with. Sometimes it's either that the exes can still be your friends without much problems or the exes can become bitter enemies that despise each other with many problems (it could also be separately like one ex is good & the other ex is bad). There are people that might have gotten back together with one of their exes but I’ll hope that those people can learn if they can trust the exes that they’ve gotten back together with.
This was the 7th video of my project to explain "Romance" from my own perspective, Please Enjoy!